#HighlySensitivePeople: I’ve been self-diagnosed with PPOS!

You haven't heard of it? It's called Perpetually Pissed Off Syndrome. It's not a recognized medical diagnosois, I made it up. I'm not sure if this is a highly sensitive person trait or not, but it's really true for me! It can strike anyone at any time. It's not fatal, but it can shorten your lifespan. The primary symptoms are unrelenting cynicism and little patience for anyone or anything. PPOS will make your life miserable!  I'm bothered by the seemingly lack of caring of others to do what they are supposed to do. I spend countless hours correcting other people's mistakes. It's frustrating that it's impossible to talk to anyone.  If you do, it's a miracle that the problem gets fixed the first time. Can…

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#HighlySensitivePeople: Who can you trust?

Why do highly sensitive people tend to trust too soon in both professional and personal relationships? For me, I've been naive in thinking that everyone has honorable intentions. In the real world, this just isn't true. I've learned that I can't trust others until they've earned my trust. It's never a good idea to reveal too much about yourself before trust has been established. I've been accused of being an idealist. I try to see the best in everyone and everything. As highly sensitive people, it's very easy for us to assume that others feel the way we do. Dishonest people aren't good for anyone, but this is especially true for HSPs. We must make sure that we keep our distance from them. Do you…

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#HighlySensitivePeople: Do you have inner conflict and self-doubt?

Resolving inner conflict and self-doubt is a crucial step towards personal growth and emotional well-being. Inner conflict often arises from competing beliefs, desires, and values, leading to feelings of confusion and uncertainty. Self-doubt can undermine your confidence and decision-making. Addressing these issues involves self-reflection, understanding the root causes, and developing strategies to build confidence and clarity. Begin with introspection. Reflect on the nature of your inner conflicts and self-doubt. What specific thoughts or beliefs are causing these feelings? Understanding the source of your conflict is the first step in addressing it. Inner conflict arises from holding two or more contradictory beliefs or desires. For example, you might value career success but also desire more time for personal pursuits. Recognizing these conflicting beliefs can help you…

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#HighlySensitivePeople: Do you need some tips on how to cope with life’s challenges?

Learning how to cope with life's challenges is an essential skill for maintaining mental and emotional well-being. Life is unpredictable, and hardships are an inevitable part of the journey. Developing effective coping mechanisms helps you navigate these challenges with resilience and poise. The first step in coping with life's challenges is acknowledging and accepting them. Denial or avoidance only prolongs distress. Acceptance doesn't mean resignation but rather acknowledging the reality of a situation as the first step towards dealing with it. Being in tune with your emotions is crucial. Many people try to suppress negative emotions, but understanding and expressing these feelings in healthy ways is important. This could involve talking to a trusted friend, writing in a journal, or engaging in creative activities. Sharing…

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